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YOUR DEBT& YOUR PEACE I welcome you all to Tales by Olola, a blog where we discuss topical issues, share opinion and help one another to be re-positioned in other to live a purposeful life. Am your loyal host, Olabusola Olorunnowo  Today we are looking at debt management and investment patterns, as a continuation of the series that started few weeks back on  how parents can teach their children how to save .  It's no news that a few parents die living fortunes for their children while many die leaving huge debts for their children and loved ones. Some of the reasons attributed to this situation might include: Ignorance or inability to manage once income: The excuse of ignorance can no longer be entertained as posterity would ask you "WHY". Hence the need to manage your income and utilize the concept of delayed gratification where necessary. Greed: the act of amassing more than is needed Lack of a proper financial plan Lack of evaluation of b...

"ARE YOU HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR? When this type of question is asked, there is every tendency you may be tempted to take it in an offensive way. However, the essence is just to put a check on our unconscious emotional activities. Yes I understand you might as well say you do not engage in affairs outside your relationship/marriage. Which brings us to understanding the concept of emotional affair. Emotional affair does not involve sexual intercourse. It can happen to people who are in courtship or engaged or married but who are very fond of someone else, who is not their spouse. This is relationship build up gradually but if care is not taken, it can lead to a full blown sexual affair. The online Dictionary conceptualizes it thus: "  An  emotional affair  is an  affair  between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being  physically consummated . An emotional affair is o...

HANDLING DEPRESSION I indeed welcome you to Tales by Olola, an educative page where we improve on who we are and what we do. I am  your loyal host, Olabusola Olorunnowo. Our focus for today is   HANDLING DEPRESSION. D epression is simply a feeling of dissatisfaction about a situation or oneself. It often set in through slight unhappiness about a thing or two, with the mind ruminating on several negative thoughts, which later degenerate to bitter expressions.  Depression can happen to anyone, it is starts mostly from the teenage age then unto mid 20’s and could build up as a pattern latter in life if it is not treated on time. However, sudden excitement or grief by a third party can bring depression to another individual.  It equally not out of place to find out that some people have everything they desire yet they are unhappy or depressed and  It is also possible  that at times one may be unhappy and not knowing the reason for the sudden sadn...