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LIVE-IN COUPLE Part 3: Different Experiences and views ↓↓↓↓↓

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LIVE-IN COUPLE Part 3: Different Experiences and views  ↓↓↓↓↓  You are most welcome to Olabusola's Review. Today we are reviewing the part 3 of Live- in Couple. These series has been quite excitin g and educative for me. Today ushers us into the much awaited segment, where we view different opinions on the, on going subject of discourse. Here are some views and brief experiences that will further broaden our horizon about the path to toll, when the temptation of cohabiting comes up Or when you need to advice someone in this shoe. Mr Olaoluwa Akinola⇘✋✋👀 Now to this subject, my view on why a woman should not leave with a man she is not married to, is as follow: Firstly, it's not biblical, so that makes it entirely wrong. Secondly, to the people who don't have the Christian faith with us, the lady is at great disadvantage from several point of view and these may include one or all of the following;  After sleeping with him and acting the wif

LIVE-IN COUPLE Part 2

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LIVE-IN COUPLE Part 2 I t is another edition of Live-in couple, as the last edition welcomed a lot of commendations hence the need to go on with another captivating story inline with the subject of discourse. I therefore welcome you to Olabusola's Review. It will amaze you that that the reasons that emancipated  some ladies from their wrong relationship is the same reason that has ensnared some others. A liyah would go more than a thousand miles for a fair looking young man, as she had always loved men who are fair in complexion and when she met Chidi, her heart skipped for the love of the appearance and left out the personality screening even afterwards.  A liyah is a slim  beauty   with the typical Fulani looks but with an accurate understanding of Yoruba language and speaks Pigin fluently, aside from her own dialet. Her long stay in Lagos had exposed her in many ways and business was one of her passions. She soon found solace in her love who encouraged her

The Alone Time

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The Alone Time Yes there are times you may have to be alone .  Just by yourself. Been alone is not a taboo or wrong. It is much better to be alone than be in a troubled relationship. A time when you need to reevaluate his impact or her impact in your life. A time you need to check if indeed you are fulfill your purpose of creation. A time after a break up,  an argument, a time you just step out of the excitements of the relationship and do a check on yourself. Till your own soil by yourself. After a break up please wait to heal. Wait with yourself to rejuvenate. Know& find yourself first before launching out getting attracted to another person. 3months is good enough if it has to take that long pt more. You need to be careful not to be a casualty or disaster to the new person. So please wait, enjoy your single-hood. I once met a guy who was really insisting on dating me while I was just getting out of one and trust me...he tried his best. At first he was dating

LIVE-IN COUPLE (Part 1)

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LIVE-IN COUPLE (Part 1) You are most welcome to Olabusola's Review. Join me today as we learn and unlearn in this discussion of living with a man/woman you are not married to. It will interest you to read our first case study for this discourse: Telema and Jowoke met through a friend and became close friends. They were book lovers and as result they took time out walking long distance while they discuss different books and subjects. They soon fell in love and started dating. It so happened that they had so many things in common although Telema came to the University environment to study a diploma in a medical related course while Jowoke was in 3rd year in school. Jowoke soon had accommodation issues and Telema was so helpful to accommodate her in his one-room, off campus apartment. Jowoko would go to classes, tutorial and attend minor classes yet she would return home to cook for the two. Weekends,  when other students hang out or relax, she is busy doing house chores,