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                                                                                                      One Thing That Destroys Homes O ne thing I understand destroys home faster than infidelity is financial secrecy. You are not having an affair yet it seem like you are. You have being faithful to her, since you responded “I do” on the altar on that beautiful wedding day, yet she doubts your allegiance to her. So why would you blame your partner for her sarcasm and suspicion. Yes some women would not fight or shout at you but their sarcastic reaction to your expressions will poke you dearly into your marrows. Who says she is right. None. I am only bothered about how that secrecy about your financial achievement or loss affects your home. S ome men and women receive salary increment, bonuses, Pet-Project benefits and spend the money on the home and other things yet they do not discuss the source of the funds with their spouses. It will amaze you that, the day your spouse s

If only parents can use their words to bring reconciliation and re-connection to their children rather than condemnation. Condemnation will only make this child withdraw. However, when a child withdraws into himself too often then it might be difficult to bring them back. Many children who have being emotionally and psychologically abused by friends, family's, teachers, parents and so on, have become depressed and victim of circumstance at one point or the other in life. Some parents in their rage have frustrated the creativity, talents, career, and self esteem of their children. Some are even confused on how words can work on a child instead of incessant beating. Beating or scolding a child at some point for correction might be okay but incessant beating of the child might just cause more emotional damage. There is therefore a need for a balance in the way we scold, rebuke and spanked our wards. Every parent needs to be conscious of the mode of correction used on the ch

* Your Child and his Hero* Some time ago, I was privileged to be a discussant among a group of children. We were discussing “who is your hero?” Each child was expected to respond as the baton got to him. In response some said, "Jesus Christ", a few said "my Dad", "my Mum". Surprising, from the rare, one said "my hero is my sister" and just then came this shocking response "my hero is Chris Brown". Now at this point, one of the children turned towards him in great bewilderment and asked him; why is Chris Brown your hero? Then he asked him "why is Chris Brown your Hero" and the confident boy innocently responded, "I just like him because he is successful". I marveled but kept calm about his response as I allowed the question to go round the group. This story brings us to the question, who is your child's hero? You really need to know! Children learn through imitation and whoever a child li