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2 FACTS ABOUT GETTING PREGNANT

 Fertility is possible for every couple with the help of God. Personally I have realized that a few things that aid Fertility apart from undergoing procedures are: 1) Distracting your mind from continuous thoughts of why not me and the numerous reasons why conception is not working out at the moment. I understand that the society and everything around you will keep reminding you of the delay but guess what, worrying about it, will not accelerate the process. So please calm down a little. Engage in something you love doing as you trust God for your miracle. Go for another degree, get a professional certification, go on vacation, get a skill , start a new business or an NGO. Sometimes in a bid to make others happy, your joy and fulfillment is birth. 2) Focusing on getting pregnant while making love can distract you from getting pregnant. The nervous nature is never helpful. Hence you may need to enjoy every time spent having sex because you can only be alive to get pregnant. If care is n

Why People Rape

No more is it what it should be No more is it for pleasure No more will it be fun For when your fun aligns with cruelty What joy nourish your ego Murder in the cathedral called us out I speak against them Them that tear a heart open And not just her skirt When our boys are raised to be possessive When vengeance flows like an ocean in them When their veins long to subdue Then they will catch fun in cruelty I speak to the mothers I beg you for tomorrow I beg you for today Glance at yesterday and make tomorrow Raise sons with compassion and empathy  Raise them with values and morals Raise them responsible with dignity I speak to the fathers What sought of model are you Why sow seed and not mentor Why model tomorrow's danger Many a son are without model Yet models of havoc they cherish Nothing justifies rape Not even nudity Not even your anger or unforgiveness Only a seared heart  Only a callous heart And when you smell one  YOU, talk them out of their cave And when you sense he is mea

Breastfeeding for first time Moms

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Hurray!!! Hurray!!! It's World Breastfeeding Week and our blog is proud to support and encourage women who are engaging in both exclusive and non-exclusive breastfeeding . The beauty of breastfeeding is that it is has a lot of benefits which include but are not limited to: * 1* Breastfeeding helps in building bond between mother and child.  * 2* Breastfeeding reduces infection tendencies in babies. *3* Breastfeeding keeps the babies healthy  *4*  Breastfeeding is economical to maintain and it's also helps nursing mum to shrink their tummy (in some cases ) faster. The challenge with breastfeeeding in our society is that, it is a sacrifice hence nursing moms should be encourage to sleep well, eat well and drink a lot of warm water, tea or pap to help her lactate. Most first time moms are emotionally drained due to the series of advice. Many advise only show how incompetent this moms are.  WHO advises 6months for breastfeeding for every baby. Your choice to do it for a year is

BOOT Party Chieftain Condoles with APC

*Boot Party Chieftain condoles with APC* A chairman aspirant under the umbrella of Boot Party Amb. Taiwo Femi Adebayo has sent a condolence message to Hon. Bashir Omolaja Bolarinwa(BOB), the State Chairman of All Progressive Congress (APC) on the death of Dr Femi Ogunshola a chieftain of the ruling party.  Ambassador Femi Taiwo Adebayo in a surprise action jettisoned the usual bitter rivalry common to Nigeria political terrain as he reached to the APC Chairman over the death of the APC bigwig. He described the late politician as a grassroot mobilizer and a force to reckon with in Kwara politics. He prays that the Lord will console the Chairman and the entire members of APC family. Incidentally, the trio of Ambassador Femi Taiwo Adebayo (FM), Hon. Bashir Omolaja Bolarinwa (BOB) and the late Dr Femi Ogunshola all hailed from Ifelodun LGA. The business tycoon explained that beyond politics, the progress and development of their dear LGA is paramount. This information is made public by the

An Ambassador Expressed His Regrets...

*Ambassador Mourns Dr Femi Ogunshola* Amb. Femi Taiwo Adebayo has described the death of Dr Femi Ogunshola as "...sudden and sad occurrence."  The Boot Party chieftain says the death of the former Federal Commissioner of the Federal Character Commission (FCC) who also served in the administration of Dr Bukola Saraki as a Commissioner deprived Ifelodun LGA, Kwara State and Nigeria a great son and a worthy politician. He sympathised with the Ogunsolas’ and the entire Babanloma community and good people of Ifelodun LGA of Kwara State and prayed Almighty God to grant him rest and give his loved ones the fortitude to bear the big loss. This announcement was compiled by representative of the BOOT Party, Ilorin, Kwara State chapter. Thank you for your time on Olabusola's Review.

A Notable Nigerian Ambassador Sends His Condolences To The ABDULRASAQ's Family

*AMBASSADOR TAIWO FEMI ADEBAYO CONSOLES THE ABDULRASAQ'S FAMILY OVER THE DEMISE OF THEIR PATRIARCH* A leading contestant of Ifelodun Local Government Chairman in Kwara State has conveyed his sincere condolence to the AbdulRasaq's family over the glorious passing of their patriarch, Barrister AbdulGaniyu AbdulRasaq (SAN) the father of the incumbent Governor of Kwara State. In the statement released by the Media Team of the Boot Party Chieftain, Ambassador Adebayo described the death of the former AGF "...as a colossal loss not only to the immediate family but also to the whole Kwara State and Nigeria at large." However, the politician enjoin all and sundry to take solace in the worthy life that Baba lived, he also prayed that the "Almighty Allah grants the Governor and the entire family the fortitude to bear the huge loss." Amb. Femi Taiwo Adebayo concluded by praying that "the Almighty Allah will forgive Baba's sins and grant him Al-Jana't Firdo

How To Teach Children African Proverbs

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How To Teach Children African Proverbs We should not allow this compulsive Covid-19 vacation end just like that. Beyond ensuring your children do their school works, you may need to help your children understand a few African Proverbs as well.🙄... I bet not many parents are familiar with African Proverbs especially the 21st Century Parents. Never mind, it is not too late to  start with the few popular African adage or Proverbs that you are familiar. All you need to do is to start by infusing them in your daily conversation with your children. While speaking with a friend on this subject, her response was, "Now this brings me to why I pity my kids sometimes. How are they going to know all these yoruba adage🤷‍♀." Here is an instance where a parent used a proverb in a daily conversation : Mum : Daveen!, pls come get this button from under the chair for me, u know, ówó ómóde o to pèpè, tagba o wó keregbe, baby😘 Daveen :huh?!😕😕😕mum what does that mean?🤷‍♀

How To Cope With Children During Covid-19 #STAYHOME

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How To Cope With Children During Covid-19 #STAYHOME I can imagine the thoughts of many mums at this point, " FOOD STORE IS RUNNING OUT, Courtesy of Covid-19 lockdown". I know I am not alone here,if you are in this ship, Welcome. Oya gather let us discuss. The Children and teenagers are watching us keenly, so this is not the time to start blaming government and politicians for the spread of Covid-19, neither is it the time to be sharing fake forwarded news that will spread fear and anxiety.  You cannot also be watching Netflix 24/7 and expect your child to be reading? They are a product of what they see. Experts say it takes 21 - 33days to form a good habit. So we can utilize this lockdown and instill positive habits on our children. Try the following and add more to the comment below; 1. Take the children to the kitchen store and allow them make a food allocation that will spread for four weeks (Incase the lockdown extends). Enlighten them on healthy /appropriate

My Pen

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   My Pen  And when my pen finds expression Her speed is like one with obsession Yet not I but the ink that flows in my pen The papers hunger for a ginger of my finger Oh what fun it is when it linger longer than expected Well what a fate That plague my pen with a sure mate with no hate And when my pen finds direction Her action in motion is like one who was bestowed with a baton Even Usain Bolt will wonder at the speed of my pen Thank you for visiting Olabusola's Review. Poem is by Olabusola Olorunnowo

They told me

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They told me So they told me At odds times they drill And daily my ears hurt for the warning Warning of love I call it Many words they said to me That at your arrival I shall loose my sleep And that my time would be yours Yet I yarn for you My thoughts were,how you would look So now when I hear you cry seconds after leaving you, I remember those words When I trade my meal time for your me time When I can't wear my usual slimfit dresses I remember those words When I can't attend most events I remember those words about your arrival Well I fear not those words Yes I fear not their reasons Rather I love every of your troubles Your joy I seek So I love to see you smile I love the way you refuse to be swaddled I love you more than words can say You changed my world and carved your world by my world It is only a phase and for each phase I shan't be weary of you Thank you for your time on Olabusola's Review. The Poem is from Olabuso

Love Poems

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Just A Gaze Such a smile Yes your beautiful smile Even from a mile Always light up my face You are endowed with grace That aid my pace Not in my place to choose you Your path cross my race With just a gaze Beyond words can tell Beyond the well of wealth Is your love I don't love you for today I love you for yesterday I see pictures of more today in your love Many are slain by gifts That drain them Many slain by wealth That breed their pain But I am on a love train That wont pain or slain Many say love is scares But I say love is scares for those who too scares for true love When I say I love you It's not for this season But for many seasons And the reason is not known to even me I love you Poem by Olabusola Olorunnowo Thank you for visiting Olabusola's Review
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How To Write Your Story I get tired sometimes when I read about winning stories. Trust me, the feeling is not due to envy or jealousy rather it is born out of a quest to know "the how" of the excellent achievement. Many times we celebrate many successful people without knowing "the how" of the success. The result is often over magnified than the process, hence it's just another 'glory embrace'. Many people would be glad to hear of how you failed and the different practical steps that helped you in succeeding. Yesterday I watched the comedy skits of a lady called, Taoma. In one of her videos, she recorded the step by step of how she got into that career. She even went on to discuss the process of cloning and how she learnt the use of Adobe Premier Pro app in editing her videos. It was indeed a great video to me as it provides succinct info and trainings required. I can tell she has a leadership trait and a compassionate heart tow

10 Questions Men Hate To Answer

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10 Questions Men Hate To Answer How funny right, well the truth is , in relating with a man, there are some questions men hate to answer, sometimes because it affects their ego and at other times, they shy away from saying the truth or taking responsibility for their actions. ***Here are a few of those questions: 1) How much do you have? 2) Where have you been or where are you coming from? 3) Why is she calling you? 4) How did you spend that money? 5) Who is calling you? 6) Who are you chatting with? 7) Did you price it before buying it? 8) Why are you smiling at that lady? 9) If you are giving my mum this, what are you giving your mum? 10) Where did you get this from? Most ladies do not mean to stress their men out when they ask some direct questions. The challenge is that they do not know better ways of asking these questions.  I would advise that ladies be more patient and not allow  prejudice prompt them to be unnecessarily curious. It is okay t

Welcome Back

Hello great reader, Here is to appreciate you for a beautiful 2019 and to officially welcome you to 2020. It is my first post in 2020 and I wish you a beautiful year. Thank you for your time on Olabusola's Review