HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A MARRIED MAN : Advice for Preye and Odafe
HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A MARRIED MAN : Advice for Miss Preye and Mr Odafe
Oh Yes! It is still Olabusola's Review.
Our focus for today is to resolve some issues of the mind. The first on our list is the issue of "Preye and Odafe".
Odafe and Preye dated for a year with the understanding that Odafe is married and that once Preye finds a guy she wants to settle down with and she informs Odafe, he would let her be. Now Preye has found someone and she is ready to start a relationship with this young single guy but Odafe has refuse to let her be, despite the fact that he is happily married with children.
What advise would you give Preye ... kindly send in your comments.
Thank you.
It is simple. She needs to run. She has to leave nonii. Shikena!
Preye should distance herself from Odafe, change contact or better blacklist Odafe contact from her contacts. Open up to her boyfriend about her former relationship, ask for God's forgiveness and move on with her life. If not She will get stuck in the web of lust, destroy her future home and life.
Anthonia. Designer
But why do some ladies get themselves into a ditch and later they would be crying for help. Greed must have gotten her there. Anyway as for me, she needs to avoid him. Stop collecting things from him and she might need to also stand her ground.
I feel for Preye. Yes the deed is done. I will advice she prays to God for help. Sexual relationship is a covenant that only God himself can break, hence the reason Odafe has refused to let go. Yes he is married yet men like Odafe would just prefer Preye be single for life so they can keep her for themselves. Also Preye would need to be careful on how she relate with Odafe afterwards especially if he works or resides around where she is.
We all have made one mistake or the other but facing your challenge is the best solution. My advice is for her to keep telling herself that no matter what she wont go back. She also need to manage it in such a way that her partner doesn't know of it, especially if he is the jealous type. Else she might loose on both sides.
My advice to praye is to face the consequences of her actions or didn't she know that odafe is married yet she remained in a relationship with him. This game is simple if you sleep with someone else's husband,somewhere some how someone is going to sleep with your husband and vice visa. People don't come for advice after opening up a deliberate act.
My dear we all have to pay one way or the other for things we do delibrately irrespective of our advice to them. In all I blamed preye for dating Odafe when there are lots of single and ambitious guys out there.
Investigate further you will find out that there is a selfish motive on the part of both of them. Personal gains and fulfillment.
What was she doing with a married man in the first instance. She needs no help.
She either cuts off the married man. ..You ladies are good at that except there is a benefit she is enjoying that she isn't acknowledging and that's the problem. Benefits messes up relationships.
I understand that single ladies go through a lot but I like to use this medium to appeal to all singles ladies out there. Please be a bit more patient with God. He will come through for you. Do not because of your circumstances defile another woman's bed or sell your body. Sin is sweet but stopping it, is not easy hence the reason Preye needs to plead to God to forgive and guide her. Her decision to quit is the best. Women are always at the receiving end, no matter your intention. It is a man's world, they say so if a lady is not careful in her choice in relationship, she might find herself making the same mistake over and over. So Preye no one will force you to be in a relationship so flee now that you can.
To the many Odafe out there,love and cherish your wife. Stop going about to lure young girls with your listening ears, attention, love or more than any thing your material possession. Stop trashing your wife's trust & fidelity on the cleavage of other women. So many men have thwarted their relationship & destiny due to extra marital. affairs. May God help our men to be faithful to God and their marriages.
Anyway, from the look of things there is already a soul tie between Preye and Mr Odafe. Making it difficult for Mr Odafe, bobo to let go. Miss Preye should ask for God's forgiveness then run for her dear life far from Mr Odafe and also blacklist him from her contact in whatever form or ways.
In conclusion, I would want to advice all ladies out they not to involve themselves in a relationship that has no future and transformation especially with married men. Build your life with someone going somewhere to make things happen! Relationship are meant to be "transformational" not "transactional ".
Preye should go and settle down with her husband else where. Odafe doesn't want preye to have her own home... He should let go. And go to his wife.
Thank you all for your sincere advice.
We are all humans and to err they say is human but to forgive is divine.
I understand how wrong both parties (Preye and Odafe) are and do not subscribe to infidelity in anyway. The aim of this post as well as the previous is to build homes, purpose driven and Godly relationships.
Like the saying goes in Yoruba land " Ijo aba ri ibe ni ibe nwole" translation : solution comes once you realize the problem. Every human have their own flaw but God is not an unjust God to destroy a repented sinner. The pride and joy of God is in the repentance of all human race, no matter the gravity of the offence but God who searches the heart is able to redeem every soul that truly repent.
Ref: Preye
Opeyemi. Finance Analyst
It is simple. She needs to run. She has to leave nonii. Shikena!
Seun. Surveyor
Preye should distance herself from Odafe, change contact or better blacklist Odafe contact from her contacts. Open up to her boyfriend about her former relationship, ask for God's forgiveness and move on with her life. If not She will get stuck in the web of lust, destroy her future home and life.
Anthonia. DesignerBut why do some ladies get themselves into a ditch and later they would be crying for help. Greed must have gotten her there. Anyway as for me, she needs to avoid him. Stop collecting things from him and she might need to also stand her ground.
John. Chef
Hmmmmmnmm! In the first place why should Preye go into a contract relationship with a married man or didn't she know she might be satisfying Odafe better than his wife. Anyway, Preye should tell her husband to be about it or Odafe's wife for a quick solution.
Tolu. writer
I feel for Preye. Yes the deed is done. I will advice she prays to God for help. Sexual relationship is a covenant that only God himself can break, hence the reason Odafe has refused to let go. Yes he is married yet men like Odafe would just prefer Preye be single for life so they can keep her for themselves. Also Preye would need to be careful on how she relate with Odafe afterwards especially if he works or resides around where she is.
J.... Artist
We all have made one mistake or the other but facing your challenge is the best solution. My advice is for her to keep telling herself that no matter what she wont go back. She also need to manage it in such a way that her partner doesn't know of it, especially if he is the jealous type. Else she might loose on both sides.
Greg Artiste
My advice to praye is to face the consequences of her actions or didn't she know that odafe is married yet she remained in a relationship with him. This game is simple if you sleep with someone else's husband,somewhere some how someone is going to sleep with your husband and vice visa. People don't come for advice after opening up a deliberate act.My dear we all have to pay one way or the other for things we do delibrately irrespective of our advice to them. In all I blamed preye for dating Odafe when there are lots of single and ambitious guys out there.
Investigate further you will find out that there is a selfish motive on the part of both of them. Personal gains and fulfillment.
Gbenga Slim
Bad marketWhat was she doing with a married man in the first instance. She needs no help.
She either cuts off the married man. ..You ladies are good at that except there is a benefit she is enjoying that she isn't acknowledging and that's the problem. Benefits messes up relationships.
Alhaji Olodo
Ehennn he should marry her. Ehen She had better quit the relationship if she is tired.T. Ball
You see the thing with men. Preye has goofed o because I don't know why she did that in the first place. However, the best is to run from him. Odafe has seen that Preye is useful to him hence the reason he doesn't want to let go. Most likely there is something about Preye that is making Odafe not let go. Mind you if Preye listens to his plea then she be doomed for life. Haba! you have chop enough allow the girl go. May God forgive Preye and Odafe.
Sally Counselor
I understand that single ladies go through a lot but I like to use this medium to appeal to all singles ladies out there. Please be a bit more patient with God. He will come through for you. Do not because of your circumstances defile another woman's bed or sell your body. Sin is sweet but stopping it, is not easy hence the reason Preye needs to plead to God to forgive and guide her. Her decision to quit is the best. Women are always at the receiving end, no matter your intention. It is a man's world, they say so if a lady is not careful in her choice in relationship, she might find herself making the same mistake over and over. So Preye no one will force you to be in a relationship so flee now that you can.To the many Odafe out there,love and cherish your wife. Stop going about to lure young girls with your listening ears, attention, love or more than any thing your material possession. Stop trashing your wife's trust & fidelity on the cleavage of other women. So many men have thwarted their relationship & destiny due to extra marital. affairs. May God help our men to be faithful to God and their marriages.
PROUDLY KING TJ... Consultant Dog farmer/care provider.
Hmm... Nawa for some ladies o. Wetin dey go chop no go make dem think straight. #Somehow#.Anyway, from the look of things there is already a soul tie between Preye and Mr Odafe. Making it difficult for Mr Odafe, bobo to let go. Miss Preye should ask for God's forgiveness then run for her dear life far from Mr Odafe and also blacklist him from her contact in whatever form or ways.
In conclusion, I would want to advice all ladies out they not to involve themselves in a relationship that has no future and transformation especially with married men. Build your life with someone going somewhere to make things happen! Relationship are meant to be "transformational" not "transactional ".
Tobiloba Beautiful Painter
Preye Should change her contacts and her residence.
Captain Charles
Preye should go and settle down with her husband else where. Odafe doesn't want preye to have her own home... He should let go. And go to his wife.Thank you all for your sincere advice.
We are all humans and to err they say is human but to forgive is divine.
I understand how wrong both parties (Preye and Odafe) are and do not subscribe to infidelity in anyway. The aim of this post as well as the previous is to build homes, purpose driven and Godly relationships.
Like the saying goes in Yoruba land " Ijo aba ri ibe ni ibe nwole" translation : solution comes once you realize the problem. Every human have their own flaw but God is not an unjust God to destroy a repented sinner. The pride and joy of God is in the repentance of all human race, no matter the gravity of the offence but God who searches the heart is able to redeem every soul that truly repent.
I remain your loyal host, Olabusola Olorunnowo.
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