AFTER WEDDING WHAT NEXT


Yes! After Wedding, What Is Next?


Wedding is one the most beautiful events that everyone look forward to, especially the mothers. Yes! Indeed every mother anticipates her children's wedding day. You find most mothers, not wanting to decline a wedding invite. Simply because it helps their imaginations and sense of judgement. They also ensure they are well represented at every wedding party attend, because people often make reference to wedding events among other parties.

In most cases, mothers are more anxious about the wedding day than their daughters, and this has often times resulted in family conflicts, underestimated debts and much more. From the event planner's diary, to the caterers list to the Traditional / Engagement list, to the Musical Bands, to the Aso Ebi corner, just to mention a few.You will agree with me that so much time is needed to be invested and is actually invested in this one day or three to five days event.

However, the focus of this discourse is not on the numbers of days devoted to plan the wedding day neither is our focus on the need for less planning and preparation rather the core is on "what next after the wedding day".

The wedding day is just a day, when the people witness the agreement between two people who wants to live together as husband and wife. However, that day announces the beginning of many days that the visitors who attend the wedding may no nothing about. We place more emphasis on the wedding day than the marriage. The marriage starts the moment the couple are joined as one and there is so much needed for building this new life together,

Yes after wedding what next include the following to mention a few:


  • Plan on how to legally change your name

  • Set house rules: You may need to set new rules if you have not done so already.
  • Living with your spouse is one of the biggest adjustments you'll have to make, so it's important to discuss the rules of your household as early as possible. Jackson encourages newlyweds to make a clear plan of who is doing what, set expectations, and eschew the age-old ideas of what husbands and wives bring to the table. "Sometimes we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves and others by having unrealistic expectations or fantasies you have had since childhood. You do not have to assign responsibilities by traditional gender. If your man is a better cook, assist him and learn while you may need to get out of his way in the kitchen and complete other chores that keep your household running smoothly."

  • Family is next
  • Planning together
  • Shared responsibility/ delegated responsibility
  • Ernest desire to build the home 
  • Financial Planning
  • Building of Prayer time/ devotion
  • Building a purposeful life together


Ref: Brides/ Blogs/ Relationship : http://www.brides.com/blogs/aisle-say/2014/07/things-to-do-after-you-get-married.html

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