How to account for his heart
A conversation between two people in love.
I talk to my younger brother about u
He is happy to meet u
Here we see two lovers comparing notes people who are aware about their relationship.All relationships are unique: which implies that no two relationships are the same.
However, there might be similar traits in some of our partners that makes history reproduce or represent it self in our love life. Have you ever wondered why a lady or a teenager falls prey of a cliche such as "Your face looks familiar". Yes ! to you, it might be the last thing you would ever be a victim off. Meanwhile t some babe somewhere might here such and pulse to reason it out after which comes more affectionate words that further empties her reasoning and she goes off guide. In the same vein another babe might hear such cliche from a young man and she would discard in his intention that minute.
Indeed life is full of mysteries. What rocks my boat might just sink yours. Which means the ways of love is never cast in stones, only that there are some common signs , traits and mannerism that can equally help you identify if there is a future with this lady or gentle man.
For the purpose of the today's discourse we are looking at "who has he/she spoken about you to? " Like I said the answer, you get from this question is not a predominant factor to quit or proceed with the relationship rather, it can serve as a guide line for you.
It baffles me that some sweet guy somewhere, says he loves you and you ask them who did you tell about me. Then he says, "nobody, i kept it to myself or I have just been observing you".That seem to me like an indication that, this person does not mean much to you. The bible says where your treasure is , there your heart will be. So if indeed this girl is a treasure and your heart is with her, then she ought have distracted you in such a way that someone somewhere other than your spirit soul and body would be aware of her. Same applies to the lady, you should have asked someone to check them out for you or something. Please if indeed you love this lady or guy you must have discussed her/him with your friend, relative or acquaintance or mentor.
Some times ladies often overlook and make excuses for little signs once they have a crush on a guy or are in love. There is a saying that it is difficult to convince people in love simply because they already formed their perceptions. However, it is best to do check and balance analysis before you fall deep into a ditch that is covered with the carpet of affection. Knowing and evaluating the signs does not still mean that if a lady or guy is a player he would not tidy up his game, rather the whole evaluation process helps you to reduce the tendency of another distress. Just as we utilize the famous SWOT (Strengths Weakness Opportunities and Threats) analysis in our work places, we equally need to apply it in our relationships.
If you have won his heart then he would talk about you to his friend, family, relative, colleague or mentor. You date a guy and it all looks like he loves you yet he tells no one about you. He does not find out about you from you or another,or try to meet with or speak with your friend, relative, mentor or acquaintance. It is good to take it slow and allow the relationship to grow steadily but it is scary to date in secrecy. If you both are in a relationship yet no one knows on the side of one party then i suspect a foul play. Especially when you are the one asking him/her for a visit to his friends or family. It amazes me how some people are dating and where they meet is in his house or her apartment where both are staying alone. You both meet at his or your house, or at night on your way back from work and when a friend sees you both he stutters... then I suspects a user. Some users may be trying to figure out when to say goodbye about the time you are wrapped in love.
The morale behind today's discourse is not to take everything like it seem. Stop to verify every claim without confrontation but with every sense of politeness. Robert Frost says" Don't ever take a fence down until you know why it is put up". This life is too short to be spent on sustaining and treating love injuries. “We cannot be too cautious, Hannelore. Just because someone knocks on the door doesn't mean you have to open it. Sometimes, sweet girl, there are wolves at the door. If we are not careful, they might eat us.”
― Ruta Sepetys, Salt to the Sea
The beauty of having telling someone is not to expose yourself but to guide you. Involving your mentor or someone whom either or both of you are accountable to about your relationship is very important.It helps you to plan better and avert major distress in future.
REF: www.Goodreads/quotes
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