Why Do Men Cheat
Why Do Men Cheat
Today we are discussing yet another captivating topic. This topic is one of the unanswered questions on the mind of most ladies. Having considered the previous subject ideal man& ideal woman , it just seem right to know if the absence of your ideal woman or man can cause cheating in a home or in a serious relationship.
Many men and women have different reasons for their actions and reactions in their various relationships. However, what is the reason why a man would cheat and if possible can it be avoided, if it is known.
Views from both gentle men and ladies have been coming in. Some of these views are:
*** Seye 35 Truly it's because humans can be negatively insatiable which means covetousness.Hmmm... Its better we agree and understand that sexual indiscipline on both the female and male can cause it.
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I think cheating is a natural thing for men...it takes a strong man, one that has self control not to cheat. So I'd say weak men cheat... To be continued tomorrow...
*** Jide Ibrahim Before I answer this question let us define cheating? What is cheating in a relationship? From general perspective cheating is when you go outside your intimate relationship with someone to seek intimate pleasures from others.
Mind the key word intimacy! Naturally men are not mono-intimate beings, ages long before contemporary conceptualisation of cheating men had lived a multiple-intimate life. Cheating arises when a man is not able to justly allocate his resources, among his intimate partners. Mind you Justice is not Equity, the key word is justice.
Modern world has deconstructed man, man can nolonger manage one intimate partner how much more several. All men are not qualified to be the Archetypical Man, a man must understand his strenght and weakness. An archetypical man is an Alpha man, most of our fore fathers because of the environment they found themselves are naturally Alpha men, and you dare tell them they are cheating.
You can be bold enough now to talk about cheating because cubs have refused to grow, and Lionesses are leading the pack. The Alpha Lion, the king of the urban jungle are now a rarity. We now look upto lionesses like you for food and survival. Then cheating is applicable. And because the contemporary environment has broadened, sharpened, refined your skills as Alpha female, you deserve and earned the right not to be cheated on
*** Jide Ibrahim Before I answer this question let us define cheating? What is cheating in a relationship? From general perspective cheating is when you go outside your intimate relationship with someone to seek intimate pleasures from others.
Mind the key word intimacy! Naturally men are not mono-intimate beings, ages long before contemporary conceptualisation of cheating men had lived a multiple-intimate life. Cheating arises when a man is not able to justly allocate his resources, among his intimate partners. Mind you Justice is not Equity, the key word is justice.
Modern world has deconstructed man, man can nolonger manage one intimate partner how much more several. All men are not qualified to be the Archetypical Man, a man must understand his strenght and weakness. An archetypical man is an Alpha man, most of our fore fathers because of the environment they found themselves are naturally Alpha men, and you dare tell them they are cheating.
You can be bold enough now to talk about cheating because cubs have refused to grow, and Lionesses are leading the pack. The Alpha Lion, the king of the urban jungle are now a rarity. We now look upto lionesses like you for food and survival. Then cheating is applicable. And because the contemporary environment has broadened, sharpened, refined your skills as Alpha female, you deserve and earned the right not to be cheated on
Sa'adah Adelakun Clothier*** Men cheat because of different reasons ranging from lack of contentment, satisfaction and sometimes material benefits they intend to derive. As a Muslim, I will also include lack of the basic principles and understanding of the Islamic faith as regards Muslim men who indulge in such.
*** Nkechi T... It's due to what Yoruba people call Ojukokoro
Oluwasegun 28,
I don't know why men cheat because I can't read the thoughts of other men to know why they cheat. All I know is I'm not cheating on my woman because she's amazing the way she is so therefore no room for any other woman!
Seun 25, Accountant. Men sometimes cheat due to pressure from home ... I feel Men cheat probably because of pressure or nagging from their wives at home.
Kabiri*** Men cheat because women are like oranges...
***Olapeju. Lack of confidence in their woman
Teghogho... I don't know why. All I know is that, I don't cheat.
PROUDLY KING TJ ... Hmmm,'why do Men cheat'? Frankly speaking,i would say Men cheat because they probably don't get the needed satisfaction from their wife at home and it could be that they lack self control towards the women folk. Men generally are hunters! (,consultant Dog farmer and care provider par excellence)
***Natural 25... In my own opinion on why men cheat. I have three major reasons why some men cheat:
1, some men can't control their sexual urge. 2, they don't value or appreciate their wife. 3, cheating runs in their blood lineage. Although some women are the reason why their husband cheat, most especially those that deprive their husband of sex & a nagging woman.
*** Ok.men cheat because we feel unsatisfied... Adekunle Adeyinka teacher
Peace CSR*** Men cheat because they want to cheat and note that not all men cheat
I do appreciate you all for your sincere contributions. More comments on this subject of discourse is welcome.
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