"DON'T MARRY..."

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DON'T MARRY...

YOU are welcome to Tales by Olola, a blog where we discuss topical issues that bothers on relationship and life issues... the purpose is to help us live purposeful lives. Am your regular host Olabusola Olorunnowo.


DON'T MARRY...


Yes the topic seem weird,"DON'T MARRY..." I stumbled on this piece and i think it may help someone somewhere... Marriage is beautiful but marrying wrongly can be frustrating.  It's like an unopened parcel, you don't know the real content until you open it. Mind you the real content can't be experienced until you are married. Even when you engage in co-habitation, courting, dating and all sought, you may still not be able to see through that person but once you are married, the real HIM or HER will materialize gradually.So many marriages don't last and some of the reasons can be found in the piece below:




Don't Marry Because of SEX,
Don't Marry because that is the available OPTION
Don't Marry because you are getting OLD,
Don't Marry because you are of AGE,
Don't Marry because your LONELY
Don't Marry because you Need someone to Support
you FINANCIALLY
***

Don't Marry because you Mistakenly Got
PREGNANT for Him.
Don't Marry because you don't want to LOSE the
PERSON
Don't Marry because of Family PRESSURES
Don't Marry because everyone says
you both are compatible
***

Don't Marry because you Like the IDEA Of
Marriage
Don't Marry because of PITY or Out of PITY
Don't Marry because of TRIBE
Don't Marry because you Admire all the WEDDING
GOWNS you See
Don't Marry because you Love KIDS,
Don't Marry because all your Friends are getting
Married
Don't Marry because of Physical/Academic
Qualifications
***

BUT,
Marry Because you are convinced about your partner
Marry Because you are READY for it
Marry Because of Love
Marry Because you want to Fulfill your PURPOSE
Marry because you want to be a Good HELP
MATE...
***
I PRAY TO GOD ALMIGHTY TO GIVE YOU ALL THE
BEST LIFE
PARTNERS WHO TRULY DESIRE TO MARRY YOU
WITH THE
RIGHT MOTIVES..
Ogbolu Ezeugo Jerry

 Thank you for reading.
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