JUST FOR MEN



JUST FOR MEN



I welcome you all to Tales by Olola and I am your regular host: Olabusola Olorunnowo.

Today's topic is to take you on a silent ride. This section requires deep meditation & sincere responses to the questions asked. You will need to think about your present and your future in order to get the best of response. 

 I learnt something from Late Myles Munroe, and I quote "if You don't love you why should I love You". 
Majority of people if not all, whether single or in a relationship have baggage they can't cope with, yet they want others to cope with it. No! it doesn't work that way: You need to love yourself, work on yourself and make people or (her) feel you are the best thing that happened since ice cream, then it will be easy for her or people generally to love, understand and accept you.

 The questions below are not the best of questions, however they are good enough for you to be a better you. If you sincerely answer them, these questions will help you to know more about what you want in life, who you are, what you need and who you need in your life. 

 Let's assume you are a lady, how would you expect your man to describe you?

 The questions are as follows:
Where do you see yourself in the next 5- 10  years?

 What is your vision?

 What kind of lady would you love to marry (Personality wise)?

 Would you marry a lady who is smarter and richer than you?

 How would you want your partner to dress to Religious gathering,  Meetings, Social gathering, Official outings etc?

 What will make your partner stand out among others?

 How old would you prefer your partner to be?

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 What can you Deliver as a husband ?

 How sincere are you?

 How would you want your partner to respond to you?

 What are the physical attributes that you find attractive in a lady ?

 How would you want your partner to treat your family?

 How would you want your partner to behave in public?

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 Would you want her to keep hanging out with her friends?

 What kind of behavioural pattern would you expect from your partner?

 What kind of home would you love to build?

 Do you think she can fit into the picture of the home you desire in your future?

 As a man, what would a lady say of your personality: arrogant, loose, timid, intimidating, endearing , harsh, sensitive, calculative etc?
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If she agrees to be your wife, what would your partner's life be like?

 For how long can you keep up a grudge &how do you resolve an issue ?

 Rate yourself 1% - 100%: how approachable are you?

 How do you use your physical attributes as a man?

 How do you use your authority, fame, power& money?

 How hardworking are you and to what extent can you search for wealth?
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 How do you see your self among ladies& men alike, rate your self?

 How much of the table manners and courtesy do you know?

 What are your Taboos & Do you think she can cope with it?

 How much of God do you know?

 How much of God do you expect your partner to know?
I hope you are able to repaint a better picture of yourself and your expectations at the end of this exercise. It is always good to see our self from the eyes of others and to put others in our shoes, then it will be easy to be ourselves and we will know how best to treat others.

 Thank you.
Ref: ***A chat with Eprame Osunde
***Late Myles Munroe
*** ESA The Style Hive


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