JUST FOR THE LADIES
JUST FOR THE LADIES
I welcome you all to Tales by Olola and I am your regular host: Olabusola Olorunnowo.
I learnt something from Late Myles Munroe, and I quote "if You don't love you why should I love You".
Majority of people if not all, whether single or in a relationship have baggage they can't cope with, yet they want others to cope with it. No! it doesn't work that way: You need to love yourself, work on yourself and make people or (him) feel you are the best thing that happened since ice cream, then it will be easy for him or people generally to love, understand and accept you.
The questions below are not the best of questions, however they are good enough for you to be a better you. If you sincerely answer them, these questions will help you to know more about what you want in life, who you are, what you need and who you need in your life.
Let's assume you are a man, how would you like your spouse to describe you.
The questions are as follows:
What kind of man would you love to marry (Personality wise)?
Would you marry a man whom you are smarter and richer ?
What does been wealthy mean to you?
What will make him stand out among others?
Does his age or background matter?
Does a man see you as a loose, timid, intimidating, endearing , considerate or calculative lady?
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What would your partner find at home if he marries you?
How faithful can you be?
How would you want your partner to treat or respond to you?
What are the physical attributes, you find attractive in a man ?
How would you want him to treat your family?
How would you want him to treat you in public?
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Would you want her to keep hanging out with her friends?
What kind of behavioural pattern would you expect from your partner?
What kind of home would you love to build?
Do you think your partner can fit into the picture of the home you desire in future?
As a man, what would a lady say of your personality: arrogant, loose, timid, intimidating, endearing , harsh, sensitive, calculative etc?
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If he chooses you to be his wife, what would your partner's life be like?
For how long can you keep up a grudge &how do you resolve an issue ?
Rate yourself 1% - 100%: how approachable are you?
How do you use your physical attributes as a lady?
How do you use your authority, fame, power& money?
How truthful are you?
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How do you see your self among ladies& men alike, rate your self?
How much of the table manners and courtesy do you know?
What are your Taboos & do you think he can cope with it?
How much of God do you know & how much of God do you expect your partner to know?
What are you bringing to the relationship or union?
I hope you are able to repaint a better picture of your self and your expectations at the end of this exercise. Once you know how you want to be treated then you should be able to treat other people likewise.
Thank you.
Ref: ***A chat with Eprame Osunde
***Late Myles Munroe
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